#6: Narcissists lie about their past experiences.
Narcissists lie about something that happened in the past. For example, a narcissist will say, “Because of me, the team won the championship,” when in reality, this narcissist was never part of the team in the first place. They also lie about mistakes that they made. Narcissists never want to admit that they’ve made a mistake or done something wrong in the past. They’ll twist things around so that it sounds like it was someone else’s fault or change the story entirely. Narcissists often have an overly idealized view of themselves and try to present themselves as perfect.
This includes creating an image of themselves as the perfect boyfriend or girlfriend, which usually means that the problem in the past was not his or her fault.
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#7: They lie about who they are.
Narcissists are not the kind of people you can trust. This is to hide that they have an inflated sense of self-importance, a need for constant admiration and praise, and an inability to empathize with others. They do really believe their own lies and are completely unaware of their narcissistic tendencies. Narcissists are people who are full of themselves, but a better way to describe them is they are people who are empty inside. They have no real sense of self, so they try to fill the void with attention and approval from others.
#8: They lie about their achievements.
Narcissists often claim to have achieved things that they haven’t. They may exaggerate their accomplishments or even flat out lie about them. For example, they tell you about winning the number one spot in a big tournament, but in reality, they never get to the top three. Narcissists love to brag about themselves and make themselves look good in every situation. When you ask them about their job, they’ll tell you that they are the most important person in the department. They tell you they’ve won a prize, but they were just one of many nominees.
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