Number 7: Do not believe the image that they present as an accurate account of who and what they are.
Narcissists are consumed by their public image; however, usually, the image they present to the outside world cannot be further from the actual reality. Narcissists take the word hypocrite to a whole new level. They are the biggest hypocrites, and the phony and fake facade they present to others is not even close to an accurate account of who and what they are really like. So, again, please do not believe the image that they present to the outside world.
For More: 10 Signs You’re Dealing With a Truly Evil Person.
Number 8: Do not ever expect empathy from a narcissist.
Narcissists do not feel or experience feelings of empathy and compassion for anyone. They are incapable of empathizing with other people, regardless of what they might say. So, if you are involved with a narcissist and something happens, do not expect them to empathize with you, because if you do, you are going to be very, very disappointed.
A Book: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
Number 9: Do not defend yourself or try to justify something you have done or something they have accused you of doing.
That is a no-win situation. If they accuse you of something that you are not guilty of doing, simply state that one time and disengage. They are hoping to bait you into going down an never-ending rabbit hole of trying to defend yourself against something that they already know you are not guilty of. Remember, everything is a game to a narcissist, and they enjoy the supply they get from your anger, your frustration, and your pain. So, do not take the bait. This is a game for the narcissist, and the only way you win is by not playing.
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