Number 1: The Hollow S£xµal Fluidity.
Fluid, but not in the way you think.
When we hear the term “s£xµal fluid,” what comes to mind? We associate it with openness, freedom, or genuine exploration of one’s s£xµality, don’t we? But in the narcissist’s world, it does not come from that place. For them, s£xµal fluidity is not about identity; it’s about utility. Many narcissists, though not all, have no real s£xµal preference. They have no rooted sense of s£xµal self. Instead, their s£xµal identity morphs to fit the situation. If you are a man, woman, or non-binary, it does not matter. If you are younger, older, married, or vulnerable, it still does not matter. If you have a hole, they will use it. Sorry, but that is how it is.
If you give them praise, they will perform for you. If you worship them, they will become whatever you want them to be—until they drain you dry. This is why their s£xµality feels hollow. They’re not being real. Their passion is not rooted in desire; it is shapeshifting, just like the rest of their personality.
One day, they are a dominant lover who takes control. The next day, they are soft and submissive, pretending to need you. But it is never coming from a true place, as I said, because there is no true s£xµal self. That is why, no matter how wild or intense the s£x gets, there is always something missing. There is no depth, no soul—just a mimicry of what intimacy is supposed to look like, feel like.
And yet, some of you will ask, Then why did it feel so intense in the beginning? Why did it feel like the best s£x of my life?
That is because they have practiced—over and over—with different bodies, different minds. They have used people like toys in a lab to perfect their technique. They aren’t in tune with their own bodies; they are in tune with yours. They study your breathing, your movements, your size, and they mirror it back until you feel seen, touched, and understood. But it’s a lie. They’re not connecting. They are collecting data, tactics, and tricks.
Recommended Book: How To Kill A Narcissist: Debunking The Myth Of Narcissism And Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse.
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