#1: Narcissists struggle to think about themselves and their actions.
Let’s dig into this a bit more. To put it simply, narcissists are great at blaming others. They are pros at making other people seem responsible for the problems they are causing. This is a clear sign that they don’t spend time thinking about their own actions. Thinking about our own actions is an important part of understanding ourselves and learning from our mistakes. But narcissists have a hard time with this. They’d rather ignore their issues than face them. You might be asking, why is this important? It’s important because it harms their relationships.
Imagine being with someone who never admits they’re wrong, someone who always puts the blame on you. It’s really tiring, isn’t it? But it’s not just about relationships. Not being able to think about their actions stops them from becoming better people. Personal growth comes from admitting our mistakes and working on them. But a narcissist, stuck in their world of self-importance, doesn’t see the need to change. They think they’re perfect, so they ignore their real selves. They stay the same. They can’t change. They can’t grow.
Recommended Book: How To Kill A Narcissist: Debunking The Myth Of Narcissism And Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse (A Guide To Narcissistic Abuse Recovery And Healing From A Narcissistic Relationship)
Ignoring their problems and not thinking about their actions traps them in a cycle of lying to themselves. It’s like they’re walking through life with a mirror that only shows other people, not them. They notice everyone else’s problems but never their own. And this wrong perception makes them believe they’re always the ones being wronged, never the ones causing problems. So, being able to think about their actions is the first problem with narcissists. It’s something they try to hide, but it really affects their relationships and personal growth. They don’t want you to see this, but now that you do, you’re closer to understanding how a narcissist thinks.
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