3. Rejection.
It’s not nice being rejected, especially by someone who led you to believe they would be there for you, and then you find out that they’ve lied and cheated on you. This pulls your world from under you, and it is heartbreaking. So no, it’s not nice to be rejected; however, with a narcissist, they are craving excessive admiration, attention, and validation from those around them. So they get offended when people move on from them. They either seek to win that person back so they can punish them for daring to stand up to them, or they seek to punish that person, spread rumors, and destroy them in any way they can.
Most genuine people might tell the truth about what the narcissist has done to them, but they still don’t seek to completely ruin somebody in a moment. But with a narcissist, their fear of rejection leads them to create those feelings within you—falling silent on you, ghosting you, triangulating you with somebody new. They create their own feelings within you so that they can believe within their own mind that it’s not me, it’s you—you’re the problem—because they’re going to blame other people.
Read More: What The Narcissist Does When You Go No Contact.
4. Losing control.
Narcissistic people don’t like not getting their own way. It fills them with anxiety, anger, and fear. They are obsessed with control; they need to control people to get their own validation that they are right and better than all others. So they do not like losing control. No one throws a bigger tantrum than a narcissist losing control over somebody else’s mind. They struggle with losing control due to their need for external validation. As they have that sense of self-importance, they fail to recognize this within their own behavior. They simply create their reality for those around them so that they can blame other people.
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