1. Rejection.
One of the first things that are going to shatter a narcissist’s ego is rejection. Rejection is a major blow to The Narcissist’s ego, puncturing their delusional perception of themselves and their superiority. Not many people like rejection, and it’s something we have to learn to handle. But to a narcissist, it doesn’t compute within their mind. They believe they’re better than all of this. So, even their partner going out with friends is rejection to a narcissist that they struggle to deal with.
Related: 7 Words That Destroy A Narcissist.
2. Difference of opinion.
They struggle with people not agreeing. They struggle to deal with criticism. Narcissists cannot imagine that someone else’s opinion would be right. They believe that their opinion is the only one that counts and everybody else is wrong. And you’re going against them if you don’t agree with them. So, just having a different opinion, narcissistic people feel rejected because they lack the empathy to look at another person’s perspective.
A Book: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men.
3. Failure.
Failure is not a nice thing, especially when you’re humiliated. When you fail at something, however, failure is a part and parcel of life and helps us learn and grow. Narcissistic people, when it comes to failure, this undermines their arrogance and their know-it-all selves. They cannot handle failure in any way, meaning they don’t grow, they don’t learn. They find somebody else to blame because to a narcissist, it’s never their fault, and they just can’t take it. They can’t understand it.
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