7. Betrayal.
Not many people like betrayal. When you’ve been lied to and deceived and cheated on, it’s very, very hurtful. However, with a narcissist, you just have to find the truth out about them, and they believe that you’ve betrayed them, you’ve gone against them, and they get offended by this and seek to punish you.
Read More: 7 Things Narcissists Do When They Lose Control Over You.
8. Loss of control.
Many people don’t like that sense of uncertainty in their lives. However, with a narcissist, they will helplessly watch things unfold that they’ve lost all control over other people, and they play so many manipulative mind games to try and regain control of people.
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9. Exposure.
We all have secrets that we tell people in confidence, things that we’ve done in our past that we’re not proud of, that we’ve learned from, and that we don’t particularly want to expose to the wider world. With a narcissist, exposure rattles them. It rattles their ego, forcing them to do damage control, usually by smearing somebody else’s name so that they can regain control of the situation. They will point out everybody else’s mistakes, flaws, and wrongdoings to keep the spotlight away from them. So, they’re happy with the positive spotlight, negative not so much. They’ll go all out to pass that on to somebody else.
Read More: 10 Problems Only Narcissists Have.
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